Because when I was in a relationship with a woman, I was called a lesbian. She told me she was going to “turn” me. Because every time I date a man, I am asked if I’m “still” bi; if it was just a phase; if I’m going to have a threesome. Because people keep trying to fit me into a box- either “straight” or “gay”- and I’m not about that shit. Because I have to keep fucking reminding people of my sexuality.
If you are in the same place as your significant other right now, hug the shit out of them. Cherish every fucking second you get in each other’s presence. Cuz for those of us in long distance relationships… We’d do anything to be with the person we love.
you are erasing the identity of bisexuals. when you tell a bisexual that ‘everyone is a little bit bisexual,’ you are actually saying ‘i consider you to actually be straight.’ denying bisexuals the agency to define their own identities is both rampant and harmful.